Reblog: Here’s What My Parents 1974 Wedding Would Cost in 2017

With our list of all-things-wedding-related (vendors, rentals, objects, songs, guests, etc.) ever increasing, I just had to share this blog post with you as it hits STRAIGHT. ON. THE. HEART. of what I have been saying lately: weddings are ridiculously expensive! And it is simply due to the word “wedding” that vendors and other event-aimed businesses are able to increase prices. Ugh! DOUBLE UGH!! Now, with this handy little monster of a post at my disposal, whenever someone feels the need to say, “We didn’t pay that when we got married!” I’ll be able to cheerfully hand this wonderful explanation as to why the world hates on true love and makes the wedding planning situation so much more difficult than necessary. (Please excuse the language.)


Reposted from Buzzfeed, originally posted on October 22, 2017 and written by Meg Keene.

I got engaged in San Francisco, exactly 35 years after my parents’ 1974 wedding. Their San Francisco wedding cost about $2,000, which in today’s money is roughly $10K. So naturally, when we started planning, my mom thought that if I made the same good practical, frugal choices that she and my father had made, I should be able to pull off something similar for $10K. I just needed to be smart about it.

In fact, when most people get engaged, I think we generally assume it should be possible to get married for $10k BECAUSE THAT IS A FUCK TON OF MONEY. And yeah, if you cut some corners, in many parts of the country you actually can pull off a pretty nice wedding for $10K. (Hell, I’ve built a whole business around helping people do just that.)

But by today’s standards, my parents’ wedding was BEYOND. They got married in San Francisco’s reigning massive church, Grace Cathedral, three days after Christmas. They had a whopping 300 people in attendance, and a cocktail reception at the swanky Marine’s Memorial Club. Their cake alone was so big that when we tried to re-create their wedding, we couldn’t even find a baker that still made cakes that large.

And yet their budget was only $10,000 in 2017 dollars.

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15 Goals in 2017

I am going to stick to my tradition of not setting resolutions in this New Year. I want to always work to better myself, and not confine myself to begin a change or modification upon the first of the year. However, just as in the past (16 Goals in 2016), I have set some goals I would like to accomplish in 2017:

Physical

  • Run ten 5k’s, one 10k, and one half marathon
  • Try one new sport or workout class each month
  • Track meals in food log at least 300 days

Mental/Emotional

  • Meditate/practice yoga at least twice a week
  • Publish at least three blog posts per month
  • Read at least one “for-fun” book each month

Social/Relational

  • Reach out to 3 “lost” friends every month
  • Read one “self-motivation” book per month
  • Try three new classes (cooking, trade, etc.) throughout year

Financial

  • Book a vacation to somewhere not yet explored
  • Pay off Ford Escape
  • Eat out no more than three times a week

Spiritual

  • Join a Small Group for more accountability
  • Attend an event focused solely on furthering my relationship with God
  • Write a “review” of House/church sermon once a month

2016 in Reflection

It’s that time of year again. The time of year where Christmas music has officially been blasting in all retail stores for three months, temperatures have dropped below freezing, my warm fuzzy socks hide the fact I’m no longer shaving like its summer (#sorrynotsorry), and the Facebook Years in Review are rearing their superficial, only-choose-pictures-with-the-most-likes heads.

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